Right and Wrong
One day after a staff meeting in which a manager had publicly dressed down a coworker, a wise colleague turned to me and said, “You can’t make anyone smart by calling him stupid.” That truism served me well over the years in many ways. In the case in point here, the unfortunate coworker had failed to meet a monthly goal. The reason wasn’t really important; it was a stumble along the pathway to success. Not catastrophic, and fixable. Our chastised compatriot knew how to address his shortcoming, and our manager was aware of that fact. The demeaned individual never forgot his public flogging. And apparently neither did I. The point here is that the manager did not further anyone’s cause. Not his own, because of the way he handled the situation. Not the employee’s, because that person felt demotivated. And not the rest of the team’s, since we had witnessed what we all feared could be our own fate. In the end, no one w...